women
05-20-2005, 09:57 PM
#11
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RE: women
ORIGINAL: mossyoakshootout
Well...okay...if you want to go thru 100 girls the bar scene and meeting "as many as possible" is the way to go. But I think its a little silly to ask people out that you barely even know. And maybe I'm unique...but most of the girls I have been friends with eventually liked me as more than a friend....that didn't always work out too well but thats another story.
Well...okay...if you want to go thru 100 girls the bar scene and meeting "as many as possible" is the way to go. But I think its a little silly to ask people out that you barely even know. And maybe I'm unique...but most of the girls I have been friends with eventually liked me as more than a friend....that didn't always work out too well but thats another story.
It doesn't cost money to meet new girls. Our local mall is filled with prospective dates on the weekends. A dollar each way on the bus can get you at least one new phone number and a possible girlfriend each day. You don't have to spend money to meet girls. Dates can cost as little as $20.00 or as much as $100.00 depending on who you're taking out. But don't ever think you have to spend money to meet girls, because you don't.
Grocerey shopping with mom? See a cute girl bagging groceries or shopping with her mom? Bump into her, start a conversation, get her number, take her out.
You will be told no. Don't get me wrong. Things won't always work out, you won't always get her number. But you can't just wait for the girls to come to you.
Confidence is key. You can't be scared or intimidated by the situation, approach the girls you would like to meet. Chances are they won't approach you.
05-20-2005, 10:11 PM
#12
Join Date: Feb 2005
Posts: 70
RE: women
Well...I never have started a friendship with the idea of it ever being more than that...so no deception at all...in fact I go out of my way to make sure that kind of thing doesn't ruin the friendship.... I'm not saying I go out with friends...just that if I wanted to get a girlfriend right now I would look for someone I already knew so I had an idea what she was all about.
To be fair to you..I haven't ever really tried to do it the way you recommend...I never really needed to...it probably works just as well as you say...I just prefer to not go into things with no clue what kind of girl she is...but if you are going into the whole thing more for fun than anything, I would agree that meeting lots of people and treating it as a game to be learned is the best way.
But I will agree with you...confidence is everything. Not just in dating, but in everything from bull riding to hunting. People will always be attracted to someone who is confident in themselves and feels good to be around.
To be fair to you..I haven't ever really tried to do it the way you recommend...I never really needed to...it probably works just as well as you say...I just prefer to not go into things with no clue what kind of girl she is...but if you are going into the whole thing more for fun than anything, I would agree that meeting lots of people and treating it as a game to be learned is the best way.
But I will agree with you...confidence is everything. Not just in dating, but in everything from bull riding to hunting. People will always be attracted to someone who is confident in themselves and feels good to be around.
05-20-2005, 10:19 PM
#14
Join Date: Feb 2005
Posts: 70
RE: women
to tell you the truth, I am at the same point..too young (18) to take it seriously. But like I said, I don't want to go out dating people I don't know, but I would feel horrible just casually dating one of my good friends and messing up the friendship...so I just don't dat eright now..fun life huh? lol
