Who holds grudges??
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RE: Who holds grudges??
I don't generally hold grudges or take things to the grave, but over the years, I've had quite a few debates/discussions with certain individuals whose true colors came out, and I don't waste my time (or anyone else's)beating dead horses, dredging up old battles, ortrying to reconcile irreconciliable differences of opinion. If I disagree with a person/policy, I generally make my position known and maybe stir up a little debate, etc. I am able to differentiate between colorful jousting/debate/joking and personal attack. I'm a big boy and can handle the proverbial personal attack, but I don't forget it.
I guess you could call it a grudge if I choose not to click on their posts or read what they have to say, etc. I don't use the ignore feature, but there are some guys whose threads I will not respond to. I guess it's not "holding a grudge" as much as it's knowing that nothing good will come of offering my opinion.
While I don't generallyhold a grudge, I don't have amnesia, either.
I guess you could call it a grudge if I choose not to click on their posts or read what they have to say, etc. I don't use the ignore feature, but there are some guys whose threads I will not respond to. I guess it's not "holding a grudge" as much as it's knowing that nothing good will come of offering my opinion.
While I don't generallyhold a grudge, I don't have amnesia, either.